There's a way that laughter easily fills up the spaces in our house in Gĩtogothi.  It is early evening, and I am just about to have tea when my father, Ngũgĩ wa Thiong'o, calls me.  He is in the bedroom, his head on a pillow, leaning against the headboard.  He is in brown corduroy pants, legs crossed at the ankles, his hands interlocked behind his head.

My mother, Nyambura wa Ngũgĩ, in a flowing dress with yellow flowers interwoven between, is beside him perusing the dailies.

They look like they are headed out on a date. "Ndũcũ," he starts, "there's this cartoon in the papers that reminded me of you…show him," he smiles.

My mother opens the pages and points to a cartoon character whose name escapes me.