Last week, I shared that I've started liking a Kisii man and requested you all to pray for me, the reactions I received were both surprising and concerning.

As someone who typically found herself drawn to men from Western Kenya - primarily Luos and Luhyas - and occasionally Museveni's grandchildren (Ugandan men), this new connection has sparked interesting conversations about cultural stereotypes in dating.

Let me be brutally honest.

Before the dating app, I harboured some seriously unfair prejudices towards Kisii men.