Love is often envisioned as a sanctuary, offering nurturing, support and uplift.

For some women, however, it becomes a cycle of abuse, heartbreak, manipulation and emotional exhaustion.

If you find yourself repeatedly drawn to partners who cause more harm than good, know that you're not alone and it's not your fault. "The pull towards toxic love often stems from deep psychological, emotional, and societal roots," says Dr Catherine Muthiani, a relationship counsellor and psychologist.

According to Dr Muthiani, a relationship counsellor and psychologist, this pull towards toxic love often stems from deep psychological, emotional and societal roots.